Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Have you heard what Mike Dillard said about walmart? http://tr.im/mwFK

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Take the first step in faith, you don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step. Dr. MLK Jr.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

"I like thinking big. If you're going to be thinking anything, you might as well think big." Donald Trump

Friday, May 22, 2009

There are only 2 doors in life: the door marked "Security" & the door marked "Freedom." If you choose security you end up losing both.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

What is a Professional Bellydancer?

My dance partner Soraya & I performed last weekend @ Emeraldfest fundraiser for Mission Outreach. Despite the heat 100*F, and the asphalt it was fun.
We were well received by a small but lively crowd. The compliment that resounded with me was from the organizer herself, "You were so professional, thanks for blessing me with your talent."

This really got me thinking. What makes a bellydancer professional?
I do not think it all comes down to money the way that it does in "professional" sports or ballet dance. One becomes a professional when they get paid contracts in these arenas. Since we as dancers, operate in a small niche I do not think not being paid makes you less of a professional bellydancer.
I do many performances & most of them are not paid gigs. So in that respect I am not a "Professional" dancer. I do however have many years of experience performing & guiding dancers. Which I feel does in fact make me a professional belly dancer.

I do believe that being a professional means more in the area of conduct, presentation, & skills. To be a professional means that you are a representative of your art form. You treat it with the respect it deserves. You treat your fellow dancers with the respect they deserve. You make an effort to be congenial and to network to increase awareness in our communities for our beautiful dance.
We are all women sharing a love for bellydance after all.

Being a professional bellydancer also means having respect for yourself. You have appropriate fitting costumes. You create you own total look. You never misrepresent yourself by acting "sleazy" in a bellydance costume. Sorry, but belly dancing is largely still misunderstood and behaving less than ladylike perpetuates this view. Also, wear a cover up. It helps conceal the surprise of your beautiful costume as well as your modesty. I'm all for sexy costumes in the context of wearing when performing. Think of it this way, do you wear your bikini around when you're nowhere near a beach or pool? It's common decency & professional.

Now is the time for action!

Friday, May 15, 2009

Najmes & Soraya Bellydance Duet

Najmes & Soraya Performing @ Emeralfest
Success is the culmination of countless failures and endless hours of study. But most of all...Success is worth the sacrifice. Mike Dillard

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

I've written a article on my blog http://ping.fm/jBntR

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

I am learning some valuable information from my linkedin groups! Thanks.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Then guess what... I just mentioned that she was great & that I had a business. Simple as that she wants to sign up.
Happy Mother's Day! I just got home from dinner with my mom & we had a great waitress who really took care of us.
I am finally turning in after reading way to much & posting to my blog.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

How to get started belly dancing.

For those of you who may have stumbled upon my blog & have an interest in taking up bellydancing, you may be wondering "how do I get started?" Here's some tips that I hope will get you pointed in the right direction.

The first thing you will want to do is find a teacher. Have you seen bellydancers performing in your area? They would be a great source to let you know who is teaching. Do you have a restaurant or club in your area that features bellydancers? Many dancers performing regularly in restaurants also have local classes. Previewing your teacher dancing before joining a class is a benefit that can help you to determine if you like her style, and if it is a fit for you. Another way to find teachers is to check your community programs. Bellydance teachers are often found teaching in community programs. I teach bellydance classes throught my school district's community education program. I also know many teachers who do the same.

So what do I do if I've checked around & haven't found a teacher? Don't give up hope. You can also find teacher directories online. Three of my favorite trusted teacher directories are:
www.bhuz.com
www.Shira.net
www.bellydance.com

Mostly keep your ears open & ask around. Even in the smallest communities I am sure that a bellydancer or bellydance enthusiest can be found who can give you some referals.

Lastly, get some DVD's. Although dvd's can be great tutorials, I really recommend having a live teacher. She can you vital critique & a good teacher will always guide you on executing the moves properly. All a dvd can do is show you, then it's up to you to interpret whats been shown.

I hope that you have found these tips to be useful & can point to your journey of becoming a bellydancer. Most of all don't forget that learning is a process that takes time. Be patient with yourself & practice, practice, practice.